I think I might actually be more like “gender fluid” than a trans woman, maybe. I identify with the feelings of liking either pronoun and in fact, letting people call me whichever they prefer to see which they think of me as. I think that’d be pretty cool. And I’m already pretty feminine in terms of my body, if I started dressing different, people might not know which is more appropriate for me and I’d be interested in hearing which they picked.
But… “gender fluid” is one of the stupidest sounding combination of words I’ve ever heard and I don’t think the alternative “gender queer” is any better. No offense to people who gladly identify with those terms. I think my feeling of my gender is similar, but man… that term sounds ridiculous. No offense, though. I might identify as the same thing while skirting around the term. If people love that term, more power to them, but it’s not for me.