krellak asked:
I don’t suppose you know how one can write polyamory in a story? I’d been told that if I’m going to write a poly-amorous relationship that I need to be careful or else it’ll come off a mary-sue or make the character seem like whore. I’m shooting for a 3 person relationship.
Don’t be careful. Worrying about either of those things is a waste of your time. Just write.
Yeah, and if you do continue on with your sorry excuse for a good idea then you’ll end up like me having a mary sue evil overlord who destroys planet in the blink of an eye but won’t lay a finger on a child.
PSA: “Rambling” is when you repeatedly switch topics in one sentence, not going on a run-on sentence about one topic in particular.
If you’re talking about a single subject and then stop yourself with “I’m rambling”, you’re NOT rambling.
Rambling… ranting… it’s basically the same. Probably what most people mean with rambling is that they are going on and on about a subject no one cares about. Like you do when you talk about autism.
pumpkinpieowl asked:
Apparently saying that venting doesn’t actually help you and makes it worse is a controversial opinion (even though it isn’t and it’s a verifiable fact). Any idea why people get upset when I say this as a reason not to have a vent channel in a discord server because it encourages that destructive behaviour?
When offered two paths, both of which are difficult, most people would rather just stay put.
Misery is comfortable, happiness takes effort.
For the love of… well talking about rambling/ranting:
VENTING IS GOOD!!!!! Cropping up all your emotions and never letting them out is what leads to people doing stupid things to themselves like self-harm and suicide. Shouting, drawing, singing, punching a pillow or hell even TALKING to other people is considered VENTING. Venting is letting out your emotions, you inconsiderable twat! What do you think your therapist will tell you when you go to them? They will tell you to talk about your emotions and let them go freely without thinking of consequences.
Because that is what depressed people think, that they are a useless piece of shit that the world doesn’t want to think about and should just be quiet and die in a corner.
SO YEAH, for really depressed people misery IS comfortable and happiness IS an effort. You have no idea how hard it is for someone with dark thoughts all the time to even feel happy for only a second. You were diagnosed with clinical depression? Please! Someone with clinical depression has to go to an institution for a period of time because they are a danger to themselves and don’t spend hours on hours rambling on Tumblr. They hate the world, they hate themselves for hating the world, they don’t go and make VIDEOS for a living. That’s the OPPOSITE of depression.
No Jerry, what you have is a narcissistic personality disorder with psychopathic tendencies. And even the dumbest kid can look up those symptoms and see that they all count true to you. (I can name them here if anyone is interested).