[bq]But it does make me wonder how much of what the staff thought was being made abundantly clear is dependent on a perspective I seem to be lacking.[/bq]
To be fair, _they're_ speaking from the perspective of working on children's programming and dealing with the regulations thereof; what _they_ might perceive as being more _obviously_ romantic could easily come off as platonic to some fans just due to how the creators have to skirt around regulations they're still ultimately beholden to; FiM and EG are, ultimately, _still_ series made to market a line of toys at the end of the day after all.
I think the unspoken bit is "obvious _as we could make it_", in this case; it's why you see the Twitter confirmation so often.