“femboy” stands for males that are somewhat feminine looking. While its still mostly up to other users (and society) to figure out how those terms are used. If its a guy character that could be mistaken for female, they might be a femboy.
I still ask people what pronouns they would prefer :o
Nope. Definitely gendered, and Thorax is a dude. Which is just as well, because this immediately screamed “trap” to me, though I guess that kind of eliminates the point of a trap…
