Goddess Erosia
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I actually never did think he was seriously racist somehow in real life, that's why when I took a step back, I reread was was written and realized how it might have appeared that way. Your initial reaction seemed completely out of nowhere to me, that's why it didn't make sense to me. I figured you were almost purposefully overreacting to me, but after a couple of minutes I realized I didn't communicate something quite the way I meant to; I roleplayed a too strong in the comments - should have just been left to one comment alone. And it was a dumb "joke" anyway that wasn't worth it. You can call that flip-flopping or backpedaling all you want and I suppose there would be no way for me to prove otherwise, because I can't actually show you what was in my mind before. But I can assure you - I didn't mean to actually accuse anyone of actual real racism and I honestly thought it didn't really look like that.
As for that first jab in the last post - you were being extremely passive aggressive, it felt warranted, at least the condescending part. But looking back now with the other problem, now I am unsure if I didn't start that tone with you first. If that's what triggered that, I am actually sorry, that really was not my intention, or at the very least, it didn't feel like it was. In retrospect, the line " I think the only one that really needs to calm down is you…." seems much more hostile than I thought it did. I was just wanting to say you should chill and that I wasn't seriously "offended" by any of this.
If all this happened in person I honestly don't think any of this would have escalated like this. I guess it just goes to show just how drastically different the written word can be from speech or thought.
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I actually never did think he was seriously racist somehow in real life, that's why when I took a step back, I reread was was written and realized how it might have appeared that way. Your initial reaction seemed completely out of nowhere to me, that's why it didn't make sense to me. I figured you were almost purposefully overreacting to me, but after a couple of minutes I realized I didn't communicate something quite the way I meant to; I roleplayed a too strong in the comments - should have just been left to one comment alone. And it was a dumb "joke" anyway that wasn't worth it. You can call that flip-flopping or backpedaling all you want and I suppose there would be no way for me to prove otherwise, because I can't actually show you what was in my mind before. But I can assure you - I didn't mean to actually accuse anyone of actual real racism and I honestly thought it didn't really look like that.
As for that first jab in the last post - you were being extremely passive aggressive, it felt warranted, at least the condescending part. But looking back now with the other problem, now I am unsure if I didn't start that tone with you first. If that's what triggered that, I am actually sorry, that really was not my intention, or at the very least, it didn't feel like it was. In retrospect, the line " I think the only one that really needs to calm down is you…." seems much more hostile than I thought it did. I was just wanting to say you should chill and that I wasn't seriously "offended" by any of this.
If all this happened in person I honestly don't think any of this would have escalated like this. I guess it just goes to show just how drastically different the written word can be from speech or thought.