Where the whiner is a "true anon", that is, someone without a profile, all we can really do is ban them. But we try to make the ban informative. If it's someone with a profile, we do try to talk with them, sometimes for years, to get them to use filters. Sometimes it works, which is a happy result.
Weirdly, the BP whose comment was deleted wasn't here for your art, they were stalking another user who just happened to post on your art.
Re: skip the front page, I think that's actually a requested feature. I've seen the dev team talking about how to do that, where the "front page" is user-configurable, and everyone can have a different number of images on the "front page" and the "second page" is merely an abstraction. It's not impossible, but it is non-intuitive, but the devs have mostly been fighting the Chinese and Russian bots, and the various vandals and spammers hitting the site this spring. So, "would love to haves" keep falling behind the "we won't survive with outs".
Getting back on topic and off meta things, this really is a beautiful work. You've absolutely captured the emotion of the piece very well, with an incredibly sensitive touch.
You have a very well developed emotional camera.