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Hey so...I'm gonna try to watch my words here since there has already been enough problems in this thread. Try not to speak for everyone. You don't know what's going on in the lives of each family that have siblings now do you? Nor can you decide for anyone how great a relationship is between them.
You saying sibling abuse is good is like saying bullies are needed to abuse other students. What I'm saying is you got a lot of nerve right now saying that sibling abuse needs to happen to create a "healthy" relationship. Are you serious right now?
I know brother and sister siblings that have healthy relationships with minimal fighting.
I have a younger sister who is under constant depression because of the cruelties of this world and two older brothers who generally either hate me and my sister or will sometimes casually talk to us only to get something out of i up to this day. The reason they do this is because they purposefully chose to be plus a life of drugs. We would reach out to them so much, but they would mostly refuse it. So much for a healthy relationship.
My sister is with me and we have a good relationship, but she's scared by the abuse we inflicted on her as well as many others back in our childhood and continues to be very skeptical of that.
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It's very good to hear that your relationship with your sister is great mind you, but before you shame others into thinking that fighting with your sibling produces good results I suggest you step into someone else's shoes with a sibling to see how your ideals hold...