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I do agree that asking for your parents’ help is not a bad thing. The first rule, never submit to playing by the other person’s rules when those rules they offer are explicitly unfair. That’s how real-life Diamond Tiaras have power, see: by being the ones dictating the rules to their social circle through a mixture of pushiness and exploiting other kids not knowing any better. Laughing at their attempt to make their rules apply to you is the first step.
That said, I’ve never been effected by bullying: that’s not to say that I haven’t been bullied. I just sort of distance myself from the torment, and move on with my life. Whatever it is, is in the past, and if it isn’t it simply will not last. I see no use angsting over it. Call it dissociation if you like.
It may have worked in your case but not in every bullying situation.
I tried fighting back my own bullies. The next weeks they we’re attacking me more furiously then ever.
About that “telling your grown-ups doesn’t work”, admittedly I wasn’t really picked on a lot in my life, though there was this one time where it was simply too much for me.
Told my mom, made her promise me, to be discreet about it. She was not. Though I am actually thankful for that, since she pretty much tore those guys a new one and after that I honestly can’t recall any major bullying-incident.
But like you said, it really depends on the victim and the bully, since this is a really complex issue.
And I think I actually got of really easy in that regard, since I was never bullied physically in my entire life so far, and verbally thinking back, those were rather… silly insults that were said… AAAND I wasn’t an angel either… XP
— Friedrich Nietzsche, Beyond Good and Evil
I guess my point is when it comes to being bullied you never really know how you’re going to respond or what psychological measures you’ll take in order to mete out a semblance of safety in your life.
I think the moral “just tell the grown ups and it’ll all work out” is kind of trite and bullshit. In my experience that doesn’t really work and bullies will continue to exist all throughout life. At some point you will have to deal with it yourself in whatever way suits your moral compass.
Fighting sucks. Having to fight is absolutely terrible. However, sometimes you just have to defend yourself. You’ll never see it from a kids cartoon but it’s pretty much true.
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My Little Pony…