If those are actual suspicions of the research that Blitz had, then he has absolutely ZERO excuse to not put in any effort to _actually find out for himself if his suspicions are actually correct by combing through and analyzing the research, himself. His suspicions of the research, his responsibility to thoroughly deep dive and actually find out if the researchers were wrong, inconsistent, or falsifiable under any of the conventionally established principles for scrutinizing research.
Right.
/me Gets out red marker. Let’s review your thesis, shall we?
Thank you for sharing your perspective. It is good that it has generated a discussion around these social issues. However, I have some concerns about using this paper as definitive proof for the claim that lower birth rates are due to women being “too picky”, and in particular to your response to people questioning the validity of the paper being used to prove this point.
The thesis you are supporting is:
“Lower birth rates in many countries around the world is an increasing problem. Part of the problem in the west may not just be the incels but the female insings, women that are involuntary single because they are too picky.” (
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Hypothesis:
- Modern mating markets relegate a growing number of men and women to being involuntarily celebate.
- Tinder exploits women’s evolved mate preferences in a manner that drives addiction and dysfunction
- Incels get too much attention and culture should worry more about Insings.
Testing Method:
Reviews of two fictional case studies (one novel and one TV show)
References:
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“Halva Malmö består av killar som dumpat mig” by Amanda Romare. Semi-autobiographical diary style novel about a woman picking up men for sex and BDSM using Tinder. Like Don Giovanni the goal is sexual conquest that ends before a third date. She does not want a ‘dating relationship’ just sexting, some sex, and then she chooses the next candidate to attract and fuck. 2LDR: Modern libertine story but female lead.
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“Sigurd fåkke pult”. TV show about a male protagonist whose awkward and often unsuccessful attempts to connect with women result in comedic and embarrassing situations.
Review of paper:
The paper relies on anecdotal fallacy to prove it’s point. Using a fictional TV show and a novel as primary sources for research has significant limitations - especially given both are comedic. Fictional narratives are crafted for entertainment and may not accurately represent real-world dynamics or provide empirical evidence for societal trends. The subjective and dramatized nature of these sources means they cannot be reliably used to draw conclusions about complex issues like birth rates or the selectiveness of women in the dating pool.
Moreover, the paper does not provide robust empirical data to support the claim that declining birth rates are due to women being “too picky.” Sociodemographic phenomena such as birth rates are influenced by a multitude of factors, including economic conditions, education, access to healthcare, and cultural shifts. Simplifying this issue to women’s selectiveness overlooks these critical aspects.
Additionally, if you read the paper more thoroughly you will note that it rejects of the claim that women have more power in mating markets, instead finding the opposite. I’ll say that again for clarity and incase this is 2LDR:
2LDR: The paper’s conclusion is the exact opposite of the claim you are supporting
Thus, setting aside the method and questionable evidence used, even the paper concludes that women are not ‘too picky’ and it is men who have the power to choose or not choose.
So … given your aggressive response to anyone questioning the validity of this paper, it makes me wonder if you are going through a tough time, and the frustration they’re expressing might be rooted in personal struggles with dating and relationships.
Relationships and dating can be incredibly challenging, and it’s natural to feel frustrated when things aren’t going as you’d like.
But blaming others and focusing on broad social trends doesn’t always translate into finding happiness yourself.
If you’re finding it difficult to connect with others romantically, here are a few thoughts that might help:
• Self-Reflection: Sometimes, taking a step back to understand what we truly want in a partner and in a relationship can provide clarity. Consider what qualities are most important to you and why.
• Expanding Social Circles: Engaging in new activities or hobbies can be a great way to meet new people. This can also help you find individuals with similar interests and values.
• Communication and Openness: Building relationships often starts with open and honest communication. Being clear about your intentions and listening actively to others can foster deeper connections.
• Professional Support: If you feel overwhelmed or stuck, talking to a therapist or counselor can provide valuable insights and strategies. They can help you navigate the complexities of dating and relationships.
• Patience and Self-Care: Relationships can take time to develop. Taking care of your own well-being and being patient with the process can make a significant difference.
Remember, everyone’s journey is unique, and there’s no one-size-fits-all solution. What’s most important is finding what works best for you and staying open to new possibilities.
In summary, having reviewed your paper and your response to criticism of your paper, your thesis is rejected. Please re-write with actual, non-anecdotal support and resubmit before Friday at 5. Remember: this is 50% of your grade this semester, so please do put in the effort to fix these issues and resubmit.
Remember - the onus is on you to prove your thesis, not on others to prove it for you.
