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My boyfriend Anton and dear friend Kota got me a cintiq and this was the first drawing I did on it

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Brainiac

AI "Art" is theft

@Chopsticks
the fetish side of things is just sort of an extension of it. Some people get turned on by being (safely) controlled but slave stuff is just too hard and scary this is a nice and much softer and safer feeling compromise. Sort of like yes you let someone have control but your master is going to treat you much more gently then other options

its a different head space

not that consent isnt important to both because it is its all about preferences

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Chopsticks

Rice pone

Im pretty anxious (my anxiety is out of control most of the time) the idea of giving someone else control for a while is very soothing to me and collars are cute and fashionable as well as work as sort of a symbol for being in that headspace

Having someone hold the leash is also a very nice and oddly comforting feeling as I dont really like being touched to much

I hope this helps

@Valiant_Effort

With pet play, you relinquish the stress of having control to let another make the decisions for you, it’s just a theme sub-category of a willing chosen power imbalance. Make sense or is this coming off as insane ramblings?

That is bizarre (to me), and fascinating; I would have never guessed that in a hundred years. Anxiety related to stressors about control (which often leads to OCD behavior like maintaining things in a certain manner) usually leads to more control… but I can see how it might feel like relenting control being at ease, and as such, relief of the stressor. And thinking about it, might be a better treatment over destructive OCD behavior.

So it seems more in the category of the base survival mechanism related to shyness in a way, but relaxation as a the goal instead of fear. Shyness is avoidance and observation with wanting to be involved but fear over social survival being disrupted in mockery/failure/presentation. The shyness affirms survival by being missed, small, even avoidantly submissive (like to a bully).
But this instead seems to put faith and situational control to one who can take charge with confidence. And this can be good or bad.
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Now that completely changes my way of thinking about submissive behaviors (which I formally attributed to either fear or avoiding responsibility only). Now I want to add a character in my next novel to attribute this behavior. As a writer it’s my job to study human behavior, but it’s useful to know for social reasons, too.

(I don’t get the fetish attachment to it still, but I can see the psychology behind the concept.)

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@Valiant_Effort

@Chopsticks
Ever been going out with a group of friends and got hungry but not know what you wanted to eat? Then everyone in the group has “no preference” You all essentially get caught in a loop that denies the reward of chemicals to your brains. Until you have a solution the chemical is denied, so one has to make a decision.

No, but that’s because I’m a collective delegator. I gather suggestions from what others want, and follow a path to determine the best compromise. I make sure to usually mention what I want last, and voice what I don’t want. But it is incredibly frustrating when my roommate seems to repeatedly refuse or blank out with no preferences. Took 20 minutes to dig out a response what he wanted to eat for his birthday, because once I suggest something 95% of the time he just latches on to it.

Don’t understand the chemical denial either, don’t know what you’re describing (though I have a condition that inhibits my body’s ability to benefit or produce any pleasure hormones). Do endorphins or something get released when someone makes a decision to go do something? (I can get excited if a particular choice I want is decided or I find someone is yet to try the experience and I’m eager to share.)

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@Background Pony #C651

@Chopsticks
I never got to see your reply, wish I knew what it said! But I did want to add that you can have completely non-sexual pet play. I know that’s an issue for you and I wanted to make sure that was clear.

Interesting, I did not know that but I shouldn’t be surprised. Combined with previous 2 comments, would make sense.

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@Chopsticks
I never got to see your reply, wish I knew what it said! But I did want to add that you can have completely non-sexual pet play. I know that’s an issue for you and I wanted to make sure that was clear.

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Valiant_Effort

Sinnermon roll

@Chopsticks
Ever been going out with a group of friends and got hungry but not know what you wanted to eat? Then everyone in the group has “no preference” You all essentially get caught in a loop that denies the reward of chemicals to your brains. Until you have a solution the chemical is denied, so one has to make a decision.

With pet play, you relinquish the stress of having control to let another make the decisions for you, it’s just a theme sub-category of a willing chosen power imbalance. Make sense or is this coming off as insane ramblings?

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Brainiac

AI "Art" is theft

@Chopsticks
Its more of a comfort thing that sort of overlaps into lewd sometimes for me

Im pretty anxious (my anxiety is out of control most of the time) the idea of giving someone else control for a while is very soothing to me and collars are cute and fashionable as well as work as sort of a symbol for being in that headspace

Having someone hold the leash is also a very nice and oddly comforting feeling as I dont really like being touched to much

I hope this helps

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Chopsticks

Rice pone

@Chopsticks
Then why are you here exactly?

The picture showed up as Trending, it looked cute and I clicked on it.

Then I noticed the “Pet Play” tag. I didn’t even know that was a tag and it took me a moment to figure out what it was. I mentioned I didn’t ‘understand it’.
Commenter told me to try it for a day and ask how I feel.

I gave a perfectly reasonable response which for some reason was deleted.

I was genuinely curious about the subject matter. I don’t understand schoolgirl outfits as a “fetish” either, but I’m still curious about what it is that’s stimulating, if nothing else to understand human minds that don’t think like I do.

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Background Pony #B934

Deletion reason: Rule #0

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Brainiac

AI "Art" is theft

@Chopsticks
Then why are you here exactly?

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Rice pone

Deletion reason: Rule #6

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Background Pony #C651

@Chopsticks
Try being a pet for a day and see how you feel

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Brainiac

AI "Art" is theft

@Chopsticks
congrats

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Chopsticks

Rice pone

I never understood pet play.

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Background Pony #C651

@JP
You just gave her a book, do you really think she’s getting any sleep tonight?

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Background Pony #C447

o wow she is so precious!

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Background Pony #0656

Pretty!

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Setsugekka

Happy and cute pet^^

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JP

I miss the show so much

Who’s a good girl? You are! Here’s a book. You can sleep in the bed.

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Rare

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Ponies with collars 🤍

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